Originally Posted by Hawkeye13

My favorite SR expression is "not my circus, not my monkeys" and I think this applies here.

You are moving forward and he is trying anything to distract and reset.
Frankly, if my spouse had filed for divorce due to my drinking, I would have found an inpatient program and already be there showing through my actions I was serious.

One crummy meeting (maybe) ain't much action, especially given how bad it got.

LC is correct you are really still focusing on him.
I also think your anxiety may really be coming from your occupation of a ringside seat to his shiteshow, where the act changes every few hours.

No longer your circus, no longer your monkey--you are more important now.