Dazed, I think what you said is really healthy. He is clearly going down the rabbit hole and if given the opportunity will take you with him. You don't love him any less, you just have to love him from afar to avoid that. Just because you love someone does not mean you can be with them. However, you wish him well.
All very healthy thoughts!!!!
Originally Posted by
Dazedandconfus 
never having been exposed to true alcoholism, I didn’t know the depth and horror of it all. And understanding it’s progressive scared the living bejesus out of me. If it gets worse than what just happened, I don’t know what! I do now know it’s not something I want to be part of any longer. I do wish him the best tho. The love is still there.