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Old 07-18-2019, 05:54 AM
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Dazed - you are smack dab in the middle of a very long confusing grieving process. He may be coming to the realization that you will not be bullied or manipulated anymore, he may be well aware he cannot stop, or he simply has realized that he doesn't want to do the work, or it may just be another passing mood that will change on a dime. In my experience this is just another stab at trying to grasp a little control back since he can't seem to control anything else. Let it be. We are all here for you. Sober or not at some point the realization of what they have done and lost will hit and you most likely won't be there to witness it. For some it comes on their deathbed, for some it comes while chasing other relationships but time catches you and so do consequences eventually.
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