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Old 07-15-2019, 12:34 PM
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hopeful4
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I remember going out one night after I divorced. It was just be a group of friends hanging out, which it was, at first. Well, one of these ladies was just divorced, and I cannot say anything except she was on the prowl lol. So we went to this club, and I was so shocked.

There, in this club, were the same ol people from the bars when I was in college (and trust me, that's been quite some time ago). Drinking, dancing, and hooking up. Acting like college kids in a club. I was just astounded. I mean, who wants to keep living that life. Isn't it time to....grow up?!

That was the end of me being at the club. I am not cut out for that.

As time goes, you make the effort to create new memories of the holidays that make new, happy memories for you to focus on. Remember, family does not have to be blood. Don't lock yourself away in the house, reach out, do things with other people. Meet new people. Do things YOU enjoy!

Life is not over...I promise!
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