Originally Posted by
Dazedandconfus 
thank you. Yes, I can not do this again, and I don’t want the risk either. I too hope he can recover for his own self, but I’ve seen this before and it will not last. I just need it to last 6 months ....then I’m totally free of it.
What happens in six months?
Did he sign the papers? IIRC if he ignored them you could have an uncontested divorce in 30 days?