I'm home again, mum as ever, has made every effort to regain her independence and now has an ankle boot so she can drive. After a blow up at the weekend about his behaviour, and a chat with a chap from the church who he respects, he has reeled his neck in and is taking small positive steps. I would love to believe this is a start, but well all feel it more likely to be a temporary thing. That said we are encouraging his efforts in the hope it sticks. I'm glad to be home!