Originally Posted by
LifeChangeNYC 
This thread brings tears to my eyes. Brings up so many deep layers we’ve all battled, and suffered from. Anyone who’s in love with an alcoholic or addict... and questioning whether to stay/go truly needs to read this thread and every response. My heart goes out to everyone. Thanks for sharing and I hope all of us/all those suffering or still suffering make it to the other side of the bridge where peace awaits.
I think not only do we debate staying or leaving but we then start wondering we're we ever loved. I'm wondering if our whole marriage was just to appear respectable...appear sober. Physically he was sober but his mind was that of an untreated alcoholic. I felt like a life jacket. What did somebody else call it... Wife Support? So true.