[QUOTE=AnvilheadII;7214978]clearly intoxicated
Becca - during his "clean" time was he still drinking? nothing opens up the floodgates faster than adding alcohol. if he quit the pills but is still drinking, he's still using and keeping the beast alive.
Other than 1 occasion he hasn’t been drinking during his clean time. My guard is definitely up and I am not placing much on his honesty. Though I don’t deny that I am hopeful that he can move past this. You are right he did step back into active addiction on Sunday, I tend to think of that as the daily use that he spent so long doing. But you’re right he used and that is that. Time will tell I guess. I’m prepared to separate if needed, hopeful that he won’t take that path but I do know the reality of the situation.