Originally Posted by
hummingbird358 
Forgot to add that he drank without me even telling him about the dog passing or his grandpa's heart attack.... Didn't need my bad news to drink.
Yep, he will drink or not drink according to his own schedule/path. This isn't about you and it doesn't matter what you do . . . . except . . . . backing off and taking care of your own problems. This makes a difference at least to you and might even to him.
Big hug Humming. This is tough stuff.
