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Old 06-14-2019, 08:12 PM
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Thursdays
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Join Date: Jun 2014
Location: Englewood
Posts: 76
I’m NOT detached- really- I’m a mess- but I’ve been talking to a LOT of support people. I really, above all else, I really really want him to be sober and healthy and happy. And I want him to do it with this family. But this bs has been going on for a year, year and a half.
Ive been reading the boards for that long at least. Last year was all about the fear of loss. This year, maybe it’s the acceptance. Who knows. Maybe it will be worse than I imagine. Maybe it will be better.

edit: I know he’s got some huge growing to do and I don’t have a lot of faith that he can do it right now and I don’t know what else to say to him to convince him how high the stakes are. I will talk with the therapist and see how to approach this.
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