Thank you all. He will not do counseling, therapy, medication and hates the church. He’s very very fixed in his thinking. It sucks. I have a referral for a shrink and will seek out counseling. I’m getting my ducks in a row and figuring out a plan. I’ve cried so much to various professionals in the past two days it’s ridiculous. I think I’ll hit up another alanon meeting tomorrow morning.

I have a constant knot in my stomach and I so wish for a happy outcome and pragmatically believe the worst.