"Life is never going to be easy, fair and painless."
I have a changing view of this.
Life is often easy, as I learn new skills, habits of thought and allow Higher Power/Universe to guide this.
Life is often fair, in there being great abundance, peace and calm.
Life is often healthy, vibrant, strong and playful. Enjoying life, taking note of these things and being grateful for them helps greatly!
Simply what I'm experiencing. One day at a time.