Originally Posted by
BlownOne 
Politely remind her that your program is yours and hers is hers. It's really none of her business. The fact that she has the stones to tell you that you should want what "she has" is a major red flag. If that doesn't do the trick, simply tell her you'd appreciate it if she worrried about her side of the street, not yours.
Its odd how she thinks that I have opted out of AA just because I don't go to her homegroup.
But yes I will tell her next time