Originally Posted by
WeThinkNot Not at all.
I did lose several close friends from childhood as a result of my addiction, it would be great to see them again now that I'm sober. At the same time my recovery is the absolute number one in my life. I can't be looking backwards, only forward to what lies ahead.
If it is meant to be that I cross paths with these people in the future I would welcome it. If not then I will still continue on my path with my head held high. No time for tears or regrets for me.
Pretty much that.
I am fortunate that I've only had two close friends who, frankly, were justified in finally setting a boundary that they loved me from a distance and wished me well. That is a little sad in case of the one, and yet, I place that friendship in a special place during my history.
Anyone else, nope. I only make room for people who are trying to live their own best lives at my table. That includes those who support me and each other. Why would I waste energy on those....who aren't?