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Old 06-12-2019, 04:14 PM
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dandylion
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seekingcalm….you absolutely did the right thing by cutting off the phone.
In fact, I believe it is a loving act. One of the parent roles is to teach the young...to prepare them for life in the world without the perpetual protection of the parent.....
Do not do for another what they can and Should be doing for themselves.
Part of the Rescuer/Victim dynamic is this principle----If one "rescues" by doing for another what they can and should do for themselves....they, will, eventually find themselves on the "victim" side of things.....
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