I read a comment recently where somebody said all my posts are mean. I went back and reviewed many of them and was relieved to see that most of my posts are not mean IMHO. But, some were...
For that I apologize and, as a member wiser than me once posted, "what we are is our words and deeds. I will work very hard going forward to not be mean. I'll still be direct, I'll still encourage people to protect themselves and their children from alcoholics and point out when they are not doing so, but I'll make sure to do so in as kind a way as possible and focus on experience, strength, and even hope sometimes.
To anybody I've hurt, and if you haven't blocked me already, I'm truly sorry.
C-