Hi entropy. Congratulations and good luck with your new venture! It sounds like it is an exciting new chapter and I love that you said you want to focus on you.
I hope this isn't overstepping but, screw your brother! You are never to old to start something new or set a new goal, and you are able to confidently list qualities about yourself which make you an ideal candidate for any employer.
Get a great template for your resume and ask someone you trust to give constructive feedback so you can fine tune it, shop for a new interview outfit you look great in and go out there and show them what you're made of!
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