Originally Posted by
Meadow123 
I am having a moment this morning. I know I am doing the right thing. I keep thinking I am all he has ( to a point yes he has friends but no family really) so am I full of myself with this thought? I feel so bad wondering how he is doing, I can hardly stand the thought of him lonely and sad.
I really recommend you go back and read your thread again. It happens - when you have been apart for a while, that the "good" seems to come to the forefront - after all, who wants to dwell on the negative?
Originally Posted by
Meadow123 i have to learn that there is no reasoning with him. He has to help himself first.
Most importantly, please try to refocus on yourself. He doesn't need your help and hasn't actually asked for help.
He has no intention of quitting drinking and has insisted you ignore his vile messages - that doesn't sound like a cry for help, sounds like someone who wants someone that will put up with him just as he is.