Originally Posted by
Meadow123 
He called and left a voice mail wanting to meet for dinner tomorrow so he could explain things. He couldn't explain everything because he says he is not equipped. He said he loves me more and more. I sent a text declining and said that I had become a target for his frustration and it was slowly chipping away at me. I begged him not to reply.. guess what? He did... saying it wasn't fair or true and that I exaggerate but so be it as I wish... like always ( jab that I am selfish). Wow.... no reply from me. You cannot reason with an abuser.
Pizza sounds really good, I already ate today, but you got me hungry, may have to order that tomorrow.
The reason I quoted you was so that you can look at something here. He left a voicemail, seemingly that he wanted to apologize, you responded and you said "NO" to dinner. He then sent you another text berating you and blaming you. One of the ways to find out if someone really means what they say is by saying "NO", and to see their response.
So happy that you son did well, and that you are celebrating tonight.
(((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))
amy