He called and left a voice mail wanting to meet for dinner tomorrow so he could explain things. He couldn't explain everything because he says he is not equipped. He said he loves me more and more. I sent a text declining and said that I had become a target for his frustration and it was slowly chipping away at me. I begged him not to reply.. guess what? He did... saying it wasn't fair or true and that I exaggerate but so be it as I wish... like always ( jab that I am selfish). Wow.... no reply from me. You cannot reason with an abuser.