Originally Posted by Bekindalways
I actually did count days of no contact with my Ex. It kind of helped as I believed healing was out there after a long time of no contact.
I'm old and not very tech savvy but can't you "hide" him instead of blocking him on Facebook? . . . then you just wouldn't see anything from him?
Well just goofy ideas here. Not sure what you should do but no-contact certainly sounds good.
Yes, I can certainly hide him on Facebook. That's a great idea. He doesn't post very much, anyway. I haven't talked to him at all on the phone. I got a message from him yesterday with a picture of a new plant he bought for his patio. Those are the kind of platonic messages I don't mind receiving. Whatever. I'm on DAY 7 or 8 without alcohol. Clearer mind means clearer thoughts. I am thankful. :-)