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Old 05-30-2019, 05:33 PM   #10 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by PippoRossi View Post
Wow, Atlast9999. Thank you so much for sharing your story. I am headed in the same direction, definitely, if I don't put the brakes on this "relationship." I'm glad I told him this morning to back off. I'm sure he has many women on the side, he's pretty smooth that way. I'm hoping he just shifts his focus to one of them and forgets about me.
Hi Pippo, hope you don't mind me chiming in.

When you say "putting the brakes on" do you mean you are going to stop talking to him (ie: unfriend him on facebook and stop talking to him on the phone) or just that you won't allow him to charm you?

Truly, it would be best to just stop don't you think?

You are kind of giving him your power here by "hoping" he will shift his focus. Why is that? It's really your decision whether you want to talk to him or not, not his.
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