As someone who is in early sobriety as well and started young I can relate to not knowing who the hell I am. I think it takes sober time and some introspection to figure that out now that alcohol and drugs aren't clouding everything. I also have debts and anxiety looming but know drinking does nothing to help these things so I am just trying to make some small positive changes each day. I am sure with some sober time under our belts we will figure stuff out over time. Have a great day!