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Old 05-17-2019, 12:15 PM
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MindfulMan
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I don't believe in regrets. Until we have real time travel, there's nothing you can do about things we've done in the past. Can't get a redo.

What we can do is to acknowledge our mistakes and change things to keep from repeating them. And/or mend fences with those whom we've hurt.

My sobriety is far more about how much better I feel and how much better life is without drugs and alcohol than the bad things I did while drunk and using, or what my life was like when I drank/used. Yes, it was horrible, but positive reinforcement is more effective for me.

I had a problem. I solved it. Case closed.
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