Old 05-07-2019, 07:20 PM
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Katerina1072
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I can honestly say now (if I had known then what I know now) ...YES. He wasn't an alcoholic, he is a drug addict but I guess in the end it doesn't matter. We're all here for a reason, right? Their addictions, our pain. When I met him he was clean, going on a year, but about 2 months in he relapsed. I was naive, thought I could help him, as I had never dealt with addiction in my life. After years of attempts, more lies than I could even count, so much manipulation and so much blaming me for everything wrong in his life, he ended up taking me for 5k and left. Then I let him back, like an idiot. Then 2 weeks later, gone again to feed his addiction. I wasted years of my life, feeling sorry for him. I don't think I'll ever be the same.

I guess I have to look at it as a learning experience. If I ever see any signs from anyone in the future, I'll RUN like the wind.
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