Originally Posted by
hearthealth 
I wish I would have left him the first time he showed me who he was. I had left but I came back. Each time he promised he would be bettee. Each time it was better but better is not ideal. Husband does not have the relationship skills and it's so hard training a grown man when their are men who know and do different.
Sorry, training wasn't the best use of words. There are men who know and do differently was my point. They will respect your boundaries or not. If they don't respect your boundaries they are not the right person for you.