I'm generally surrounded by people who know I'm in recovery and trust me to keep doing a good job of it. Occasionally I'll get someone I haven;t seen for a while or something.
Last Xmas my uncle (by marriage) was there regaling us all with the time I got so drunk I went to sleep in the flowerbed. It was maybe 15 years ago.
he says he hopes I'll visit him again someday and maybe just drink beer this time...
I told him I haven't a drink since 2007 and eventually we moved on....
I usually just smile at advice from people who either don;t know anything about my situation, have no boundaries or are just plain wrong.
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