Bad idea from what I've seen/heard and from how I know I was all over the place mentally the first 6-9mo..just like when you previously mentioned dating...are you hoping someone can fix/fill the void you were drinking at? Doesn't work that way..thus the suggestion of giving yourself at least a year. I'm still working things out after 2yrs and have ZERO desire to get into a relationship and deal with someone else's 'stuff' day in/out.