Originally Posted by
FallenAngelina 
Arguments always require the participation of two people. They just cannot happen without both people stepping in tune to the dance, even when one of them is drunk and loaded for bear. What is your own ongoing wellness/recovery/change program?
Fallen,
I agree, arguments do require the participation of two. That's what I'm working on, is removing myself from the arguments. Eventually, he'll get tired of arguing with himself.
As for my recovery, I'm in counseling for anxiety, which this topic does get brought up. However, for this reason and another with another friend of mine, my counselor has suggested that I start attending Al-Anon meetings. I didn't really have much time before the trip, hence reaching out on here first.
But overall, my recovery for myself is going well, and I am learning to deal with these issues more, just not quite where I want to be yet. Of course, I know this takes time.
Much love and peace!
- C -