Originally Posted by
Imissmywife 
My wife and I have discussed it the past. I know our entire family needs therapy because of this.
Just a suggestion here but instead of worrying about your "entire family" (unless you have non-adult children of course), you might just want to focus on yourself.
You mentioned in your original post that she hasn't left the house in two months and that you buy her alcohol for her as you are afraid she will drink and drive.
Have you read around the forum. Knowledge is power. Even addicts who WANT to recover have a real struggle, have you had any indication at all that your wife wants treatment right now? What does she have to say about it?