i appreciate that you are looking out for your wife......however we need to be careful not to try and manage and direct what WE think is best for THEIR sobriety.
to the right of this page you will see Find a Facility...with every option you can think of. as far as women's only treatment...out here in Seattle they have a facility called Residence X11 - women only and also 12 step based. I cannot speak for any other locations.