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Old 04-05-2019, 02:49 PM   #23 (permalink)
nhwm
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Thank you tomsteve, your comments are very insightful.

I've never really looked at it that way. Why am I trying to literally stop her from doing things that harm us. I guess it's my natural response. I am thinking the lesson here, is that her actions are hers alone and my choice is to decide whether I wish to continue to be in a relationship where those actions occur, instead of trying to stop them from happening.
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