Originally Posted by
nhwm 
AnvilheadII.
. To remove her ability to lie and deceive others. It did not work.
then yer gonna have to sew her mouth shut and cut her arms off.
she does have some rights ya know. she is an adult and allowed to lie if she wants-whether you like it or not.
im reading some extreme control issues with ya,nhwm. it reads like you dont have a marraige but youve taken a hostage.the good news is its not unique-theres 1 or 456 members here(prolly more) that have been in your shoes.
the even better news is there IS a solution but it doesnt involve controlling her actions-thats impossible and if you take a look over your past, theres probably been quite a few times when youve tried to control her and she has intentionally done something to hurt you.
again-there IS a solution for YOU.
P.S.
your 3 children are learning from everything going on. they arent good lessons for life.