Originally Posted by
Zevin 
Does it help if you share your feelings of anxiety and craving alcohol with your wife? So you won't be tempted to sneak?
Definitely. I have learned to be honest with her about it. You are so right, the temptation was always to have a couple of sneaky ones to "take the edge off" and carry on without saying anything.
Laughable to think she wouldn't notice.
Anyway, I've come out the other side of this thing. Support from you guys was lovely, as always.