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Old 03-23-2019, 05:49 AM
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wildflower70
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Hey guy! I wanted to update you on the progress of renting my room!

So, I sat down with her and had a heart to heart conversation about my feelings regarding drugs and alcohol. I point blank asked her if she was a regular drinker. I explained that drugs and alcohol have affected my life in so many negative ways, and that I'm just not comfortable being around any of it! I did this without admitting I'm in recovery. I wasn't ready to share that, at this time.

What she said surprised me, that she really doesn't drink, hardly ever, but mentions it more often than necessary to make it appear like she actually has a social life. She confessed to being a boring home body, like me. She has also been around hard partiers, and has no time for it. I'm going to trust that she is being honest with me, and I trust myself wholeheartedly, I will not drink, no matter what.

I'm excited to have someone around again, and financially relieved.

Have an awesome weekend!!
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