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Old 03-14-2019, 10:20 PM
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trailmix
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Hi Loveblue. I had a look at some of your older posts, going to back to June of 2015. The situation then is the situation now, so nothing has changed at all. He is still drinking a ton and you are still appalled by his behaviour.

Back then you were shocked at his behaviour. Is it possible that this goes on all the time and has for years and just that every once in a while you get out of the fog and go, hang on, what AM I DOING HERE! Why do I put up with this horrible behaviour, why do I allow him to treat me like this?

I'm just guessing of course.

My suggestion would be to get to an Al-Anon meeting if you don't go already. Also, have you read the book, Codependent no more (Melody Beattie)? If not you might want to pick up a copy, its recommended a lot around here. Even if you don't feel the label applies to you, it has lots of good information.

Keep posting here. I notice you don't post very often but it can be really helpful to get regular feedback and to vent!
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