Thing is she’s still a person but so are you. Gotta take care of your self and you have done well it’s good to hear your still sober and I hope things are ok otherwise.
This kinda stuff happens in relationships when one gets sober it can often change the dynamic so much so it doesn’t always work out.
I’ve been fortunate in my case but I’ve had my bumps in the road too.
Hang in there sounds like there’s a lot of positives to this too however.