Ha!
I actually kinda thought the therapist's idea WAS good - I think the idea was to challenge how much she "really cared" about the BF.
After all, if she hadn't moved in there in violation of the lease - and - after the landlord said no way due to her failing the background check, he would still be living there. (or maybe not calling the cops every time they fought would have been nice too).
In any case, after he stayed at a friends for 2 nights, she did spring for a cheap air B & B room - until Tuesday. So, I am enjoying the peace and quiet. Tuesday she finds out if she is is approved for an apartment. If so, they will move in there (for the next round of drama) and if not, I guess they have some things to figure out.
But, I do love the saying - not my circus, not my monkeys. You all have been a tremendous help! Thanks!