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Old 02-28-2019, 09:12 AM
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venuscat
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Snuf honey, I was thinking a lot about you last night....sometimes I need to let things sit for a bit before I can offer any useful insight.....I am thinking this:

You are sober, you are getting better after being really unwell for ages, you have a very nice boyfriend and cat....and a place to call home right now that isn't stressful. Yes, I know you need and want a job, but you kind of need bus money to go on interviews...I really believe that it is one hundred per cent fine to talk to your guy about this. I bet he will be horrified when he realises you were afraid to ask for any more help....it's just bus money love. You need to be able to get out....how can you even do the grocery shopping for the house...I know.....he does it or you do it together.....well Nick does way too much for me (funnily he thinks it is the other way around).....and I need to be more independent as well. It is good for us.

You got this girl.....new life, one step at a time.
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