Tomorrow I have to return to my home. Husband will be there. He has been pleasant on the phone, but I know how its going to go down. I'll get back to the same spot. But I have to be patient. My ears will remain shut to his words and I will work on a longer term solution to a move away from him. He refuses counseling and continues to maintain I'm the problem. I am ever grateful that I can come here with you all.