I just made another bad decision and am regretting it terribly. But when I did it I told my son this was the last time I am going to be involved at all. He took the opportunity I gave him to add another boatload of trouble on himself. And it is his trouble but in sitting here beating myself up .....
Don't beat yourself up, Litehorse, most of us did our "one last time", until finally we put down our shovels and climbed out of the hole of insanity for good.
They have their own shovels, they know where help is when they are ready. God's got them covered. Us too.