Thank you all for the logical suggestions. I’m heart broken and so worried for her. She was such an amazing wife and mother. It’s hard, really hard, to even discuss my options with the attorney. But I know this is not going to end well if she doesn’t snap out of this immediately. The kids and I will be ok, eventually. As for her, think a serious tragedy is unavoidable and it’s painful to watch it roll through our lives like a tornado. Destroying everything in its wake.

Im physically and emotionally beat the hell up. The cost financially and professionally is mounting with no end in sight. She has apologized profusely, said nothing happened, just talk, has stopped talking to these fan boys, and the married man she was flirting/planning with, and is asking to go to detox...again. I’m so reluctant to throw any more money at this. It’s all screwing with my head.