Originally Posted by
AnvilheadII 
hold up....you are her AA sponsor, NOT her therapist. your job is not to fix what is in HER inventory. only to listen. To God, to ourselves, and to another human being" - you represent the other human being.
don't get IN to her drama, her life, her problems. don't try to play marriage counselor.
This is from the AA pamphlet on Sponsorship, as a refresher:
https://www.aa.org/assets/en_US/p-15_Q&AonSpon.pdf I understand what you're saying. You're right-- I won't offer her any advice.
I don't view this as drama.
I have no intention of playing therapist or marriage counselor.
However, I did want to know what the connection is between intimacy issues and alcoholism and/or ACOA.