So for those of you who know my story and those who don't. I have been a member on here since 2012, and in the shadows for much longer. Thank you for all the support & well wishes, not to mention the amazing advice and perspective. I am headed to court for what is expected to be a 3 day trial. Please pray for my little family of three. Send me all the strength you can spare. The kiddos have been telling me how proud they are and I just hope I can be strong enough to live up to their praise. I am fighting for their future to be secure without them having to engage with AH if they chose not to. I am fighting for a standard split which seems like a no brainer but this is my first time so humor me. I can almost see the light at the end of the tunnel, I know there is more sadness to come but honestly I would just be grateful for a few days of peace without this constantly hanging over me. Send me all your juju, prayers and any magic if you have it.