Old 01-04-2019, 07:19 PM
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fini
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if you were to consider getting married....on that day, do you say well, that decision is good for today, but i cannot promise for a year from now?
it’s not a true equivalent, as there is another person involved, but the concept of making a decision for the future is the same.
i get your questioning without it meaning you have a hesitation about what you want and what you plan. and yes, life is one day at a time. and yes, my intention is for lifelong sobriety.
and just to throw another wrench into this, or open another can of wiggly worms: occasionally someone had a big plan, went back to drinking and said they had changed their mind.
and then others will come along and say this shows that the person had not, in fact, made a Big Plan, as it is impossible to drink again once you have made a BP.
round and round we go
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