Originally Posted by
OpheliaKatz 
This. Being sober is unlikely to change his behavior. The new woman is the new target/supply. He will use her too. The "plus" side of that is if he's busy manipulating/brainwashing/grooming her, he will have less time to harass/bully you cause he will have to spread his energy.
This is true. He is grooming her now, so doesn't need me now. Thankfully will give me space to move on.