Originally Posted by
marie1960 
I happen to know my ex husband is a “ donkey hole”. His actions and words have 100% confirmed that for me. I am entitled to my thoughts and opinions regarding this matter. My ex husband probably views me as the witch from hell, he is also entitled to his thoughts and opinions.
I am not going to lose a minute of sleep over how he views me. It’s truly none of my business what others think or say. Ever since I have accepted this this concept, my life is pleasantly manageable.
Peace.
Of course, he is your EX.
My AW is NOT an "ex" ----- at least not yet.
Thus, the issue of how she "filters" or views my communications is an issue that has to be considered - especially as we have a minor child about whom we ought to be "co-parenting". And perhaps the "consideration" is, to separate as much as possible from her.
MCE Saint