MCE....GOOD FOR YOU!!!
You were baited....and did not take the hook. Great job!!!
Thing is, she is feeling the CONSEQUENCES of her own bad behavior. That's painful, and that's good. It may be what motivates her to stay clean. Or maybe not, only she can say.
Super proud of you!!! Someone said above, tell an addict no and see what happens. That is so right, you truly see where they are in their own recovery when things like this happen. She's still very absorbed with one person....herself.
Hugs.