Daytrader....you are basically saying that the diff between an alcoholic and a hard drinker is that the former can never recover without smthe spiritual facet involved?
ok, an in your theory, wich one is him?

he rationalizing everything now: that he has a better relationship with wife and kids after divorce, that he had no future in that company, that it’s a life experience from wich he learnt a lot etc. He only seemed to have a sort on awakening moment after rehab. But drifted back to all the beliefs that brought then there.

and, i just realised that maybe i did the wrong thing stepping away because he’ ll actually be better and I left for no reason as he said.