I did not take the AA route. I was not opposed to it and it was certainly an option for me. Something just finally clicked. Can't even tell you the exact moment. Once the ball got rolling, I was able to latch on and start using all the tools available to me.the ones that suited me.
SR, AA, SMART, all offer suggestions. The one thing that has to work is us.
What does getright15 want? Maybe that's a good place to start.